The Uninvited: How to Minimize Your Guest List

One of the most important decisions you'll make when planning a wedding is who to invite. While it's tempting to invite everyone who has ever crossed your path, it's important to keep your guest list manageable. Not only will it save you money, but it'll also help you create the intimate, fun-filled atmosphere you're hoping for. In this blog post, we'll talk about who you should consider crossing off your wedding guest list and why.

Distant Relatives and Acquaintances

It's natural to feel obligated to invite all your relatives to your wedding, but you don't have to. If you're not particularly close to your distant relatives or haven't seen them in years, it's perfectly fine to cross them off your guest list. The same goes for acquaintances you've lost touch with over the years. You want to surround yourself with people who are dear to you and who will help you celebrate this special day. Don't feel guilty for not inviting every person you've ever met.

Toxic Friends or Family Members

You want to be surrounded by people who uplift and support you on your wedding day, not those who'll bring drama and negativity. If you have toxic friends or family members who you know will create tension or drama, it's best to cross them off your guest list. This way, you'll be able to enjoy your day without the fear of any confrontations or awkwardness. Remember, it's your day, and you deserve to feel happy and loved.

Plus-Ones You Don't Know Well

When it comes to plus-ones, it's important to be selective. You don't want to invite someone you barely know, and who may not be a good fit for your wedding. It's fine to limit the number of plus-ones or to only invite them if they're in a long-term relationship or married. Plus-ones can add to your wedding costs, and more importantly, they can affect the atmosphere of your big day. So be mindful when deciding who to extend a plus-one to.

Co-Workers or Business Associates

While it may seem polite to invite your co-workers or business associates to your wedding, it's not always necessary. It can be uncomfortable to mix your work life with your personal life, and you may feel like you have to entertain them rather than enjoying your day. If you aren't particularly close with your co-workers or haven't worked with them for long, it's best to politely decline their attendance.

Children

Deciding whether or not to invite children to your wedding can be a sensitive issue. Couples may opt for a child-free wedding because they want their guests to relax and enjoy themselves without worrying about their little ones. However, if you decide to invite children, it's important to ensure there are activities to keep them entertained. Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what's best for your wedding day.

In conclusion, creating a wedding guest list can be challenging, but it's important to keep things in perspective. You want to surround yourself with people who truly matter and who will help you create unforgettable memories. While it may be difficult to cross off certain people or groups, it's important to remember that it's your day and your happiness and comfort should take priority. We hope this blog post has helped you make some informed decisions about who to cross off your wedding guest list, and why. At Wild Oaths, we're committed to helping you create the wedding of your dreams. Contact us today to learn more about our beautiful venue and wedding packages.